STAISA

13 January, 2021

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THE CONCEPT OF AL-QUR’AN AND ISLAMIC LAW IN EDUCATING WIFE AND THE SOLUTION
FOR DISPUTE SETTLEMENT IN HOUSEHOLD VIOLENCE
Asep Habib Idrus Alawi
STAI Shalahuddin Al Ayyubi Jakarta
Email: rianto.msi23@gmail.com
Abstract:
This article discusses the concept of al-Qur’an and the Islamic law in educating wives as well as solutions
to the resolution of domestic violence. By using the survey literature method in classical books and using
a textual approach to the Law Number 23 of 2004 concerning the Elimination of Domestic Violence, this
article found that the husband’s obligation to give lessons to his wife was when the wife began to disobey
and show nushuz to her husband. Giving these lessons is carried out in sequence, namely: first, the
husband is obliged to give a warning to the wife gently and gently as he reminds him to fear Allah. If the
wife is obedient again, then the lesson is enough just to get there; second, if the wife is still defiant, leave
the wife alone, leaving her in bed, do not engage in conjugal relations. If he is obedient, then the lesson
is enough to get there; third, if the wife continues to disobey, then the wife may be ‘hit’ with a note that is
not hard and does not cause injury; punches that can be likened by educating ten-year-old when leaving
prayer.
Keywords: educating the wife; household disputes; domestic violence;